Sassafras, photo sharing is controlled in your My Settings - Sharing Settings.
I'm going from memory here, but during my previous membership in 2007, I had several active matches who were hiding their pictures, and this was clearly stated somehow - matches with no pictures at all looked different. After my membership ran out, I learned of a hole in eH's system (which is now closed) where you could view anyone's pictures, even if your subscription was inactive and even if the match was hiding them. Without exception, the hidden pictures were all quite scary. And there was no polite way to say otherwise. Believe me, you'd agree..
Photo Nudges that I've sent have resulted either in nothing, or an insta-close. Thus, the idea to answer the questions but include my own nudge.
All the open matches I have right now have pictures, except for the one who sent me questions. So I'm not 100% sure if she's hiding them or if she doesn't have any. But it would be unusual for a paying customer not to have any picture at all. That's why I'll wait a short time.
A bland profile and a nice picture can generate at least a little interest. But a bland profile and hidden pics (if that's what she did)? Umm... sorry, no.
Last edited by melman; November 7,2009 at 11:16am.
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