Do you really think I'm going to go out of my way to look this up for you, when I'm full of envy?

Yes! I am. See http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/gr...-kindness.html (RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS)

Here is the help page:

https://help-singles.eharmony.com/ap...ption/r_id/166

H'mm I see there is no button to click as the instructions say there should be. Call/email customer care: click the "email:click here" at the bottom of the above page.

Congratulations!