i know, most of my friends and myself are like this- because if we weren't, we'd be homeless.
do some men think we are all living at home reclining on a chaise lounge until they show up?
Well, I do agree with the part about "they're waiting 'til we show up".
I think you'd be hard pressed to find many guys who'd complain about a woman taking a bit of initiative and indicating that they're interested in them.
Yet despite alot of lip service paid to the idea of being a "strong and independent woman", you'll notice (at least around these forums), that most women are still basically waiting around for the guy to "take the initiative", or "make the the first move". Oh, and naturally it has to be just "the right guy", to boot!