If you don't want to speak to a stranger on the phone then simply don't do it. And there is no need to feel foolish for feeling this way, many ladies are very uncomfortable with the phone as first contact and are actually far more comfortable with a face to face meeting as the first communication.
That is why the coffee-date-meeting is such a good idea- preferably mid-day or early afternoon.
Yup. Don't do anything you are uncomfortable doing. Many guys are uncomfortable with this too. And when one side or the other is both is "forcing" something, it will show.
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