I think its a new trend. I currently have 44 open communications on e-harmony in various stages of communication. It seems as though, instead of being nice and closing the communication when they find a problem, they are more prone to just avoid things altogether.

I nudge them when the option comes up because to me, until they close the communication, it means that they are still potentially interested.

Getting to the call stage and then getting treated like that prompts ME to close the communication. They get one last chance to send a message if they want to, they never do, and I dont care.

I dont want some passive agressive crap like that in my life anyways.