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New to this so really not sure what to think (was married for 13 yrs.) Meet this women about a month ago on e-harmony. We live a distance apart so we haven't actually met yet but had planned on it. Anyway the first 7 days she would call and text constantly and we would spend at least 2 hours or more on the phone each time which was cool. Then something changed and not really sure why? She called late one night and I didn't answer and since then the calling and texting have come to a very slow and very intermittent pace with me now being the one to make first contact. I have asked her on one occasions if she still wanted to pursue this and if she felt comfortable with it and she said yes but with the lack of communication I don't know. A few examples of what she now does is she will text and say can I call you tomorrow and then she never does or shell say call me and then I do and she doesn't answer the phone. Last night for example we texted and I said can we talk instead of texting she said yes so I called her about twenty minutes later and she didn't answer so I texted her saying goodnight and to have a good day and still haven't heard back from her yet before she would reply fairly quickly. I'm starting to feel that if I try to communicate I'll seem needy etc. It's just that when I do reach her she is like yes lets meet and I'm glad to hear from you. I know and understand people get busy and life gets hectic but if it's not something you want just come out and say it. I don't like games but at the same time I'm really interested in her and don't want to quit without truly knowing. Anyway any information or insights would be welcome.
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