I gave him a few months. I really really wanted it to work out because he is so kind and supportive. But I can't talk about his job all the time. He'll text me 8-10 times a day to tall me some minute detail about something that's going on in his job. I've told him I can't text that much at work as I have a lot to do, yet he keeps texting, always about the job. I honestly don't think he has anything more in his life beside his job and his son. We rarely saw each other between his job and his son.
I can't believe I finally met a nice man and I can't have him. Where are the rest of you nice guys? Nerdy is great, don't care about bald or not, paunch or not, height, any of that "just packaging" stuff. I want nice, with some interests in common. Where are you all???
ugh. I feel your pain.
have you thought about trying to interest him in other activities? or, at the very least. because he's so nice, telling him exactly what you think? sometimes people need a nudge, and since you are friends now, if you do it in a very diplomatic and kind way, he may see that he needs some hobbies.
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