That? Ok, politely:

1) I said being closed with "other" IN BULK would rend the ego. My first experience with eharmony was my first experience with online dating. In that 3 months, I remember getting no messages, and about 200 "closed - other" messages before I could even initiate anything (the rest being non-responding/non-paying members). That was not fun, and I further didn't appreciate having no suggestion as to the reason - "other" tells you nothing helpful. I would say that hundreds of disinterests with zero success would make anyone pause.

And that's all I said. This thing about me being "devastated" that any match closed me is something you've either misunderstood or made up.

2) It's extremely rude to suggest that I need mental help based on a post saying that I would prefer to know why people closed me, and a post about occasionally craving someone to hold. You don't even know me, and your amateur psychology is both unnecessary and way off the mark. I suggest you take the topic of therapy and medication a little more seriously, because it insults the people who really need it when you bandy it about in an e-argument.

And what, you've never hugged a pillow? Or held a woman?

In short: go eat your toast, Larry.