Have you considered that he is interested in his job because that is all he knows ... becasue, well, the women he meets aren't interested in him?
Can you say you spent enough time that he wasn't changing due to your presence in his life?
If he had no damaging qualities, and you had no other competing interests, I would be inclined to give a person like this some time.
I gave him a few months. I really really wanted it to work out because he is so kind and supportive. But I can't talk about his job all the time. He'll text me 8-10 times a day to tall me some minute detail about something that's going on in his job. I've told him I can't text that much at work as I have a lot to do, yet he keeps texting, always about the job. I honestly don't think he has anything more in his life beside his job and his son. We rarely saw each other between his job and his son.
I can't believe I finally met a nice man and I can't have him. Where are the rest of you nice guys? Nerdy is great, don't care about bald or not, paunch or not, height, any of that "just packaging" stuff. I want nice, with some interests in common. Where are you all???
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