I was matched up with a truly nice, kind man on eH. Men often complain that women say they want the nice guy but really want a bad boy. I am not one of those women. I like kind, sort of nerdy, sweet, nice men.

At the beginning we really hit it off. I was sooo attracted to his kindness. After a couple of weeks, though, it became clear to me that we have almost nothing in common. He is fascinated by his job, and while I'm a willing listener for most things, he seems to have no other interests. He doesn't see movies, doesn't watch sports, doesn't read, isn't up on the news, etc.

I had to break up with him. ACtually, I truthfully told him I want to be friends and we've hung out a few times but still, it's all about his job.

I guess this post is more of a whine than anything. Why can't I find a nice guy with whom I can actually have something in common? I'm sooo frustrated.