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OverAnalyzer is offline OverAnalyzer Post #6  November 6,2009, 4:41pm
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You didn't mention if she let you take them alone before.

There could be many reasons for this, but I'll list what I think, having been a single mother with small children and somewhat dating.

- she does not feel comfortable letting anyone other than family take her kids anywhere without her

- she does not want him to go to the game

- she is concerned you are *too* interested in her child

- you are more interested in her child than her

- you are not getting "no means no"

- something happened previously that didn't set well with her

- she does not feel the same toward you and she doesn't want her kids to become too attached, just in case

As far as the weekend alone? I've done that. Why? He invaded my space too much, he tried to tell me his way was better, he tried to make it all about him, he got too pushy about the relationship, he tried to take control of the relationship, but mainly - he just wasn't listening.

My advice? Let her call you. If you don't hear from her by Wednesday, send her a text.
 
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