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You don't sound like an a** but I wonder if you realize how difficult it is to give any advice let alone good advice.
To understand the mind of an abused women you have to understand what she has been though. Even with the long time you have dated she may not have told you everything. There may also be things she doesn't even remember herself. My childhood was awful, every now and then someone will say something, even a smell or objects and I remember something. Thankfully I am pretty healty so it is usually a wow, minds are interesting, response.
There is no telling what happened. If she is only asking for a weekend let her have it.
Good luck it seems like you really care.
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