This is my first time on this site and joined to get unbias advice.
My fiance continues to download adault videos. In the first year of our relationship I informed I am affended by awhen my partners watch adault movies. He then replyed that wont be an issue if the intimacy isn't withheld. Three years later he is downloading those movies. When I tell him I know about them and I feel disrespected, his responce is "It's not about you." "you think it's cheeting."
Am I crazy for feeling disrespected? I feel everytime we are intimate he is imagining who ever he was watching. He says it is difficult for him to think of anyone els while he we are intimate.
I enjoy being intimate with him. But now I am having feelings of inadequacy. I have a positive outlook of myself.
What are things I should consider?