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Hi All,
I've been using Eharmony now for about 2 months...I have one month left and am debating if I should renew or not. I seem to have alot of interest in my profile, some of which I am not interested in, but a few I have been. There seems to be a problem however, I get past the first guided questions but once I send the must have's can't stands, the communication stops. These guys don't seem to be closing the match so I don't know what I'm doing wrong or what in my choices is "turning them off". It seems that if I get a question answered the way in which may make me go "hmmmm, not sure about this" I look past it and remind myself that maybe the person will be different in a face to face interaction where they can talk about themselves and explain themselves better. I also wonder if some men on the site have too high expectations and question their intentions, I mean if I am answering with a "hmmm" response, wouldn't it be worth the guys time to say "heh, maybe its nothing, or maybe theres more to this". I like Eharmony but find it limiting in some ways...this the example. Any ideas, thoughts....
Joey
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