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The question isn't how should you approach this. Its "What do you want?"
What do you want to happen?
Once you figure that out, then go into the situation with your eyes open. If you feel that you don't want something to happen, be honest and set up accommodations for yourself. There's nothing wrong with getting a room at the Sleep Inn or Holiday Inn for yourself. If you trust being with him in an intimate setting, then stay with him at his place, but know what you want to do and not want to do and make it clear. And if at any time, you stop being comfortable. Leave. Don't let guilt get in your way. Don't let yourself be manipulate. Be clear and true to yourself.
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