Just one.. He does all thinking for the rest of us and emails us his findings

the choosen one rotates yearly..
OH, that's hilarious! You made me LOL.
jayjay, you're probably right. I struggle with the face-to-face, even on the phone. I'm (usually) REALLY good in written conversation.....that's why I prefer to IM for a couple of days before moving to phone, then meeting when I'm dating. Not that I like to drag things on by any stretch but it helps me to get comfortable communicating with someone in the ways I'm most comfortable communicating.
chrysalis08, I know what you mean but I also am kind of impressed when I meet a guy who puts more than a little bit of thought into relationship stuff. For me it's a fine line, too much and it makes me wonder....