So here is some background information. I met this girl, we dated for maybe 2 months, stuff just fell to pieces on her end I guess. I was fine with our pace until Holiday's rolled around. She really wanted me to meet her parents, and there was also talk of some european vacation in a year and a half, which I really didn't have an issue with but she scared herself with talk like that.

Anyway maybe the week before Thanksgiving she broke up with me (over the phone) saying, and I quote "I don think this is going to work steve, I am at the time in my life when I should be dating failed artists and musicians, not someone who has a career and a downtown loft. I just need to go spread my wild oats". I was a little shocked, but no big deal, its called dating for a reason.

Fast forward 1 year. Last week, I get a call, its her! I am still single and we talk for an hour. We talk about maybe giving it another shot, and I figure, why not our conversations were always great. So a few days later, I call her up to see if she wants to go to this Halloween party down by where she lives being thrown by a friend of mine. Now, and here is some more background, I bought a house maybe 3 or 4 months ago to save money and have an investment. She says on the phone, "Steve, I know what I want and it isn't the suburbs. I am just sick of not taking risks, and don't tell me that you are a risk because you are not, so I don't think this is going to work".

My question is, am I crazy, or is this girl so confused about what she wants, unhappy in her current situation, and just wants to be rescued; OR is something else up? And I have never known any girl to say 'spread her wild oats' or 'I should be dating failed artists', did I miss some new pop culture thing while I was in college?