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My answer is:
Ballroom dancing. Definitely. I know a great dancer who's husband won't even try it. He knows she's good, but he'll never know what a thrill it can be to tango with his wife and lead her into a promenade with a double-underarm turn. Honestly, it's easy to learn (I'm 101% klutz and I learned!) and I've always wished I could be out on the dance floor with a girlfriend when that tango music started and we took each other in a cat-like stance and started tiger-stalking across the dance floor, me pursuing as she backs away, both of us looking aloof, pretending not to care, but sliding, stealthily gliding over the floor as we reach a corner, snap our heads to one side, and move, side by side, in unison, into a promenade, twirl away from each other, arms flung out as I peer at her, eyes burning, ready to pounce, then slide past her as we circle each other and swing back together into that catlike stance, with me once again stalking her as she seems to try (but not to hard!) to slip away.
Some might say it goes too far, but I have yet to have a match close me out after I give this as an answer to that question, so it seems to work.
The reason no one has closed you out because of this is because you are a guy who wants to dance!!! Do you have any idea how rare that is?
Heck, if I got an answer like that I'd go out with you even if I didn't think we'd be a good match, just to have the chance to go out dancing!
I don't ask that question, but I have been asked it. I usually answer that I'd like someone to go to concerts with me. It is amazing to me how many guys don't like to go to big shows... they don't like lines, they don't like crowds, they don't like the volume, they don't like the traffic... a million excuses. I love to go to concerts and would like to be able to go with someone special. I go anyway, either by myself or with my daughter or a friend... but it would sure be nice to make it a big night out sort of date!
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