Why would you go have lunch at the site of your first date?

I am all for being social with exes..I wouldn't be meeting them out for lunch to exchange stuff! I would want that to be over as quick as possible so I can continue to move forward with my life.
especially if I was not 100% over her.

Birthday-place-girl..too many factors to get into my head about the past..

Give me my stuff, here is yours. Happy birthday.. see ya on the flip side!