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So after getting dumped by my ex about six weeks ago we are finally meeting to exchange our stuff. Original thread below.
http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...-into-ltr.html (Dumped because she couldn't see it turning into an LTR.)
I don't know if I'm 100% over her, but I am feeling much better about things. I've moved on to the extent of joining eH, one bad first meeting and at least one more first meeting lined up for next week.
On the original thread people suggested mailing her stuff back and giving her my return address. I felt that was a little too passive-aggressive for my tastes and think I'm mature enough to handle an IRL final meeting.
I'm not really sure how to approach it. We are having lunch (at the site of our first date), so there will be the need for some discussion. Should I just leave it at pleasantries and a little update with what's been going on in our lives in general?
To compound things, we are meeting two days before her birthday. She is a nice person in many respects and I would like to give her a card at least. Could this minor gesture be misinterpreted?
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