Don't rule out your chances with her. What did you do - poof on her? This EH guy did this to me last fall. But I started getting spam from his e-mail address this summer; notified him and he wrote back, and we have ended up dating casually.

So don't write this off just yet. You say she still sends an e-mail now and then -- she might be testing the waters. E-mail her back to let her know you got her last e-mail and open up the lines of communication.

Who knows? Your prayers might be answered!

Looks like Dennis is the only one that thinks there's no hope...

Dennis, if she still is in contact with you, she can't think what you did was all that bad. Take a chance!

+1. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't respond back? At least you will be happier with yourself, that you tried. But since she's kept up occasional email, it seems likely she would respond. Sending you good wishes ...