i am in my forties but do not know if i am typical. but i can tell you about me.
i do not like email and do not communicate via it very well, very quickly or very often. it can often take me a week or longer to respond to personal email.
i just do not like it. i use it for bills and business. maybe he is like me. i do occasionally have brief flurries of activity but always try to warn matches before we go to OC of this.
perhaps he is the same. perhaps communication was happening too quick for him and he decided to slow it down.
and i routinely take several days to answer questions through guided communication just to avoid this scenario. people expect immediate replies and then worry if a stranger does not answer in a timely (what is that anyway) fashion. i never get to OC in one week.
if i were you, i would leave him alone and let him have some space. you contacted him last. it is his turn to reciprocate. let him have his turn, his time and his chance.
if he is interested in you, he will get back to you.
he just may need another day or two... or a few more.
Last edited by notyet; November 2nd, 2009 at 10:56 pm.
- November 2nd, 2009, 10:52 pm
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