My 40th? I went to dinner with friends and family....much like my 39th, 41st, and most other birthdays. Oh, and my then-10 year old daughter held up a big sign in the middle of church which read "My mom the pastor is 40!" LOL.
Oooh, Grace, I just noticed that it's only 26 more days until your wedding.

I've got goosebumps for you!!