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I keep one purely so I know not to pick up when he calls! Otherwise, his random calls in the middle of the night would freak me out!
I also have a couple friends, out of a big group from my home town, that at one time or another, and years and years ago, I dated, but never seriously. I don't call them on a regular basis, but I look them up whenever I go home for Christmas or whenever and we all congregate at our favorite local bar. Maybe you would feel better about it if you met these guys? But it doesn't sound like she hangs out with them very often any more, or ever?
How did you find out about this anyway? I've never asked my boyfriend whose number he has, nor has he asked me. Sometimes, the more you know about a partner's past, the harder it is to keep the nagging suspicions and jealousy under control. Really, it doesn't seem as though she's done anything untrustworthy. . .she doesn't even call them?
Obviously, if she really wanted to hook up with one of these guys, she could figure out how to get in touch with them, absent a phone number on her cell. You've gotta realize that if she gives into this demand of yours, it's really not going to make you feel better. You can't control your way to trust. I know it's hard, but you've just sorta gotta give in. I mean, you love this girl for a reason, right??
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