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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #6  November 2,2009, 3:04pm

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joey0125 wrote :
So i was dating a girl for about six months. she broke up with me last week, citing that she was "unable to reciprocate" the feelings i've shown her, and that "we are on two different levels" I told her that i understand to a degree, but i feel like a breakup is a little extreme in this scenario. I told her that i believe we can reach a compromise, and that we can find a middle ground that is comfortable and acceptable for us both. However, she feels a large degree of guilt, because she claims that i "deserve more" and said she is not okay with continuing on, knowing that I am in love with her, yet she cannot say the same...

The breakup was over the phone. The next night, she came over and we talked for several hours. it was quiet and akward at first, but then she finally gave me a hug, and literally clung to me the entire time we talked (several hours) ... before we parted, she told me that she loved me, and that part of her feels like she could be making the biggest mistake of her life...but she felt like she HAD to end things, so she can work on things that are holding her back, whatever those issues may be...

it feels to me that she left things very open ended, therefore i have a very hard time "closing the door" on her. She means a great deal to me, I want her back, but i dont know if I should wait for her as that may not be fair to do to myself.

is she genuine?
is she running scared?

somebody please help, any peace of mind will do
Who the heck knows what's going on...she could be having commitment issues, you could be smothering her, she could be crazy, you could be 'too nice' (no we've never covered this topic before ).

In any case, genuine or not...looks like it was an amicable break up....just chill out, relax...you got a decent six months out of it. Take a quick break and when you're ready....

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