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O.k., first the facts: I was matched with someone on 10/22. SHE initiated GC that day before I checked my matches for that day. (I would have initiated if I had seen her profile, she just beat me to it.) Anyhow, it proceeded slowly, which is fine. We got to MH/CS on 10/26 and then nothing.... strange I thought... The wild card is that I have been on EH since Jan. '09 and my subscription ended on 10/28 (no more communication); I want to take a break from EH for all of the reasons we all know about including a chance to rebuild my self esteem ; )
I sent her a request to move to OC on 10/28 since my sub. was ending and explained it as such...no response.. My assumption (right or wrong) was that she never got the message. -Sorry for the length of this post, but I think the info is relevant to the situation- In her profile she listed her occupation and location. Giving in to slight stalker tendencies, I was able to find her website doing a basic search since she has a unique job in a small town. Acting on a completely wild hair, I called her at the number listed on the website, and explained who I was, and that I was really interested in continuing the process if she was still interested. I've never done anything like this before, but I figured that the potential gain was better than the potential loss, ie: she thinks I'm a real stalker and we'll still never meet.
She didn't sound completely freaked out, and said that she was busy at the moment, but that she could call be back later if that was o.k. I realize that I probably sealed my fate by making the call, but I hated the thought of going down without a fight (or at least an effort). SO the question is, do you agree, and are the rules different when THEY initiate? BTW, she still hasn't closed me out as a match. Thanks!
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