Met an eH match at Starbucks for a "date" on Saturday night. My SOP is Italian food with a couple of glasses of wine but this was her first eH date so she made the call. She had been hot for me from the first communication. We text messaged some Friday and hot and heavy Saturday while she was working. We were going to meet Sunday but couldn't wait that long.
She was HUGE and didn't match her picture. I didn't let on in the least. I was back in action after being out of the dating scene a few months. I thought I'd just be my charming self no bragging or BS'ing and with my extra confidence of losing weight and toning up the past three months this would be good for my ego.
After a couple of hours, I walked her to the car and kissed her goodnight but didn't really feel any passion from her. Text messaged her to make sure she got home okay and she did. No communication the next day so I sent her a text in the afternoon. She wrote back and again said she had a nice visit. Nothing else the rest of the day so I closed her out for no chemistry last night.
What the heck? Posters here have gotten in trouble...including me...for assigning numbers to assign attractiveness so I'll just say I was way more attractive than her so I'm dumbfounded.
Once again, a woman's thinking has left me confused and my ego bruised.
Hmmm. Interesting.
You seem to have a rather large and sensitive ego (telling us all how attractive and naturally charming you are and how this woman was so hot for you? Seriously?)
But then when a woman you say you have no interest in shows no further interest in you, your ego is 'bruised?'
As Ms Scarlet said, why do you even care what this woman thinks of you? Perhaps you have some insecurity issues that you're trying to cover up by talking about how great you are, and she saw through it?
Insecurity is never attractive. And it's a lot harder to hide than you would think.
Or maybe you didn't pretend as well as you thought you did and she could tell you weren't really interested in her.
But that's just a random thought from the little info you've posted here. Really, nobody knows what that woman is thinking besides the woman herself.
But again, who cares? Why do you let the random unknown thoughts of uninteresting strangers bother you so much?
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