was seeing this guy who i thought was the cat's pjs. two months into our relationship things fell apart. lack of phone calls. lack of contact. relationship was obviously just physical and he didn't make any effort to continue to get to know me. etc...
suddenly he tells me he doesn't know what he wants and needs time. we talk through the night and i am very understanding (either i am too nice or an idiot....). continues to hug me and kiss me and gets upsets when i refuse to kiss him goodnight/goodbye.
doesn't call for two months. no contact at all.
deletes me from his facebook friends list. (that's when you know it's over hahha!).
three months later sends me a text. tells me he misses me wants to hang out blah blah blah....
of course i was a little angry and bitter and defensive.
but why should i start things up again if i know i am going to get hurt?
Or should i put it behind us? Maybe people do change? Or maybe im just a silly woman who should know better?
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this scenario keeps happening. i am not perfect don't get me wrong, but i am a normal person who is faithful, compassionate and every guy seems to fall for me. the only problem is they don't stick around. but end up coming back. maybe i am doing something wrong here? maybe my relationship "skills" are not up to par? maybe i have bad karma?