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I agree with Lizzie, Melman and Nightling.
If I try to use eH in a way that most closely corresponds with meeting people in real life it's going to be better for me. So we meet, we decide if there's any connection in our personalitites, we ponder a little while to consider whether getting naked is something we'd want to do. If it is we proceed. If it isn't we shake hands and move on nicely.
I believe that Lust (or love but since eH is a relationship site you can shoot me for my aspirations  ) at first sight is pretty rare.
The odds on meeting someone that you immediately want to ravish and find that you also like them a lot as a person too (which bundled up is love) are not good.
I'd be prepared to meet a few times to see if it takes. Is all.
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