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Honesty is huge with me. When someone lies to me, especially when I'm getting to know them, they aren't leaving me much to build any trust on because they've made me suspicious of them. Anyone has a certain amount of my trust right off the bat until they give me a reason to believe that they are undeserving of it. If they damage the trust I give them, it's unlikely they're going to get anywhere with me. I don't know that I could let this go.
As far as I'm concerned, a marriage isn't done till it's done. If a man is still legally married, I'm not interested in dating him, and I don't particularly like being deceived about it, either.
Regardless of how you personally feel about where a marriage ends, he had two chances to come clean about this, and yet he chose to lie about it. What else is he going to choose to lie about?
I also agree with the statement that was made pertaining to potentially being in a rebound relationship. It's a rotten, empty place to be when he decides that he isn't feeling lonely anymore and you've served your purpose. 
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