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Arguing is a very normal way of expressing your frustrations or displeasure with a situation that was poorly handled or someone did something dumb. Losing ones temper and striking out or hitting someone is not and should not be tolerated under any condition. But when the air has cleared you make up!
There is a saying: Youth is wasted on the young! What do you think it means? Experience good, bad and indifference is the sum total of who you are, loved or unloved.
Do you live with your boyfriend or do you live home with your parents? Are you going to go to a college or a trade school. You have to make a place in the world for yourself or you'll always be a dirtbagger.
You have to get an education to get an reasonably good job or you'll wind up in a service type job, waiting on other people it takes a reasonable income to live in a nice place and to enjoy life.
Before you give yourself over to somebody who you love, learn to love yourself. Learn to depend on yourself and you'll never be disappointed. Life is full of disappointments and the people that disappoint you the most are the ones that you trust! It's OK to love someone but you must have a personal plan foe success and each of you share your love an success with each other. What is important to you at 18 will not be that important to you at 28 years old. The difference is (Experience!)
Harvey7.
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