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Its hard...I know I tried to divorce my ex for two years and spent thousands of dollars trying to hurry the process to no avail. The relationship was over and I was doing everything I could to make it over on paper as well but he would just not respond except to push court dates off.
In retrospect it was really good the first year because it gave me time to be single, heal and figure out who I was after the marriage (I married really young). The second year was terrible because I was ready to date emotionally but didnt feel right about it because I was still married on paper. It was also hard because I have/had a lot going for me and had great guys who were interested in dating me. I didnt date that second year though because offically I was still married. But it really felt like it was just a legal formality. The relationship was more than over and I was in a good spot emotionally but my ex would not sign the papework even though he verbally agreed to the settlement. Depending on the situation I can see where that guy was coming from, but I still would not date him...its just the principal of it.
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