I recently met up with a girl over coffee, We are both resh out of long term relationships (me about 2 weeks, her less than a week) I had originally budgeted myself a maximum of an hour for this date, but it ended going about 2 (and fantastically I might add). She had hinted at hanging out the next night, so at the end of the coffee I asked her to hang out a bit on the next night (Friday) and she accepted without hesistation.
The next day started out great, we decided on a night in instead of a night out, we picked up some beers, grabbed some pizza, and sat down to watch a movie at her place. She lit up a bunch of candles and we sat down to watch the movie, but she appeared to have distanced herself considerably at this point. She was right on the corner of the couch with her legs crossed away from me, picking up texts most of the night.
Once the movie ended, She was yawning so I asked if I should take off, but she was ok for now, instead asked me to help her find her haloween costume and let me know what I think. After this little show she said she'd been up since 5 and needed to get some sleep.
She insisted on walking me all the way out to my car (a fair distance as she lives in an enclosed condo). I panicked as I hadn't locked up an actual date and asked if I could take her out on Sunday night (silly as I knew she already had Sunday plans). She evaded and said she might be available, but didn't leave any indication to call or follow-up. I asked for confirmation if it was a yes or a no, but still didn't get a confirmed answer.
(if you ask "Why Sunday?", we both work F/T, but over weekends as well, so Friday and Saturday aren't conventional nights)
The night ended there. I didn't call on Saturday because of Haloween and we both had our own things to do, its now Sunday morning and I'm not sure what my course of action should be. Thoughts?
Last edited by TKCerbs; November 1st, 2009 at 12:24 pm.
- November 1st, 2009, 10:54 am
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