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I know people who found The One in high school and are still together now, 25 years later. It is quite possible to find the right one for you even though you are very young.
But I think the whole concept of a one and only true love can keep people in relationships that are not right for them, so be careful of that, too. You can have the kind of chemistry and feelings you have for this particular boy with someone else if it turns out he's not really right for you.
It will help if you do some thinking about what you want in a relationship long-term. What will you need to be truly happy? Can this guy provide that? You may need to talk to him about those things now and again, maybe not directly, but sort of probing by asking open-ended questions, to determine this.
Lastly, I am concerned about the anger issues you seem to mention in your post. Is this guy trying to isolate you from family and friends? That's a red flag to me ... it would say he is controlling and potentially abusive. Proceed with caution.
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