The other side of the coin!
Women want their guy to be Monogamous. The guy is being monogamous to you, but what is he supposed to do to relieve his sexual tensions? What do you do to relieve your sexual tensions?
An obsession with viewing porn doesn't actually have much to do with "sexual tension"; it's a compulsion. "Relieving" his sexual tension will not alleviate his focus on porn.
To the OP -- This is an issue that is not going to go away. It's a secret that he has been hiding from you (although perhaps the fact that he viewed porn on your computer was his way of coming "out" to you about it -- albeit in a manner that puts the burden on you to bring the topic up). If this is something that he can't control and/or he wishes to continue, then you will have to make a decision about whether it's acceptable to you to have this in your life. If not (and for many women, it's not), there are other men out there who do not focus on porn in this way.
Good luck to you.
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