I have been in a relationship with a guy for 14 months. Just recently we had a conversation about the future and what we are both looking for. He says he's not sure he ever sees himself living with/marrying again. (He was in a relationship for 10 years- married for one of those years.) Now I never pushed the issue of living together anytime soon or marriage at all - in fact said I was unsure I ever wat to be married again but would definitely like to share my life/live with the one I love down the road. Suddenly he thinks that we should end the relationship - says he loves me but he doesn't think he will be able to give me what I need and doesn't want to hurt me. I have to add that this has been a wonderful relationship in all ways - we have been very happy and get along so well. I know he loves me and his actions in the relationship would never have led me to believe that it would come to this. Needless to say I am devastated by this and think he is making a big mistake. I am completely baffled and don't understand at all. Can anyone give any advice??