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Ladies, I'd be real careful throwing around the "battered woman" label.
I have no pity for women who stay in an abusive relationship, anymore than I have pity for men who are emasculated by their woman, anymore than I have pity for dope heads and alcoholics.
These people are victims of THEIR OWN bad choices.
It is is NOT the guy's fault that the woman is in an abusive relationship. It is HERS.
It is not the guy's fault she cashed all those checks, or broke off contact with her family.
It is HER fault, and HERS alone.
Stop making excuses.
Stop bashing and blaming the guy. He is irrelevant. Why are you blaming the guy? He didn't write the checks.
Sure, he sounds like a real arsehole, but she's a big girl, and she makes her own choices.
It's heartless, I guess, but I really feel no pity for women who stay in a relationship they know is dangerous. I just see them as freaking idiots to whom I don't want to loan my checkbook.
- Saul
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