So my question is if a guy is interested in you, what are some of the signs?
My theory is that if you like someone, even if you are "busy" you still will have time to text the person (It takes only 5 seconds). In fact, you would want to know what that person is doing, and also would want to share your day with them.
You can tell he is interested because he calls and asks you out.
A five second text is going to be "hi how R U?" Which to me would be grounds for not seeing someone again. (I understand that it's a generational thing, but as a teacher, reading the made-up language and abbreviations just sets my teeth on edge) and then you'll send one back, and then he'll have to send another, and then you'll send one back, and suddenly it's an hour long conversation.
Call him. You've gone out three times; it's your turn to initiate something anyway. Call him and ask him to dinner, or a show or something.
Some guys really hate the phone. I would say in general, far fewer men want to talk on the phone than women. I lived with a man for 8 years, and I think the only time we talked on the phone for more than 5 minutes was when one of us was out of town, and even then the conversations were very short. it wasn't that he didn't love me, he just didn't like the phone. He would, however, IM for hours. Takes all kinds.
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