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Mokkesofie Post #2 October 26,2009, 11:47am

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ennoidyam wrote :

Should I just let it go? I just don’t know what do.

What a story, and what a great sister you are. Not many people would have done what you did, kudos to you.

I would let it go, she won't apologise and even if she did, she probably wouldn't mean it. I believe you would be disappointed again if you went, no need to open the wound again. I think you have suffered more than enough already. I know it's hard to let go but for your own sake and sanity I think you should. She's dragged you down more than once and I'm in no doubt she would do it again, given the chance.