Thanks for the thoughtful responses. I am trying to find my way, not judge others. God is faithful to forgive.

Are you saying most divorcees are NOT free to remarry?

if so, its sad that almost all these wonderful women who I am being matched-with -- are ?actually doomed to a life without sharing love?

See, the scripture that I find in New Testament does NOT allow divorce for abuse, even violence - nor even for being abandoned. Am i reading that correctly?

As far as annulment goes - remember how a blessing was given even though there was deception? I feel that too many marriages where oaths were takes - are annulled. Those reasons are NOT scriptural from what I can find.

If I am wrong - PLEASE show me where in scripture I am wrong!!! Really! I say that bc some of these divorcees seem exceptional to me! They want to share their life, be loved - AND, they are Christians - women of faith.

Im shocked at what Ive learned. All of my final matches are divorced. Only one out of 12 is divorced for spouse's adultery.

The ones divorced for other reasons seem to be more virtuous. Its very strange.