Every so often I conduct groups. Today, one of the participants asked if I could give a key to his friend when she comes ( I lock the door at the beginning of group). I agreed. Because I get some latecomers I asked him to give me a description so I would no who to give it to. He describe her as,"... overweight woman, with a short haircut." Several people came by that I had to turn away. And as I was about to tell this lady I was not letting anyone in he says , "That's her." Every single woman in the class, almost in unison said, "She's overweight?" The guy says later on, "Yeah, she is overweight to me. I wouldn't prefer to date someone her size.
I would describe this woman has being at a size 8, 10 at the most.
I'm very curious to know when you feel a person, male or female, is overweight to you.