Thx jayjay. Ok...only to discover that none of the men were potential partners for me. Screwed up earlier b/c I hate ending sentences w/ a prep and I just finished grading a STACK (of I won't say what) research papers before heading off to class in eeks, 20 minutes. I'm brain dead and need more coffee. And yeah, I'm an English teacher (SAY NO to ROLES), laughing out loud.