I've been a paying member for about three months now. I too thought I was being too picky but, decided to stick with it and keep a look out for a match that I have a physical attraction for. There's just over 100 matches closed. For the most part, they've all had very interesting profiles and matching personalities.

I have however, found a match that I could hardley keep my eyes off of. In the four months that I've had my profile, she's never viewed it or responded to the questions I sent over a month ago, nor update her profile. It's rather disappointing but I don't think she ever gets on here, (anymore). What she wrote in her profile really struck a chord with me as well. Hmmmm.