It only takes finding one.

I've closed 460, rarely do I get closed because I either initiate communication or close that first day.

I'm not currently a paying member of eH but I have been twice in the past. I've been poofed quite often, which is odd because we got to OC in a day or two. I see no reason not to get there that fast anyway.

I stopped being a paying member because the only way I would get matches was to accept someone with children, and to expand my distance to two hours of drive time. Nothing against someone with kids, I'm just not looking for that right now. And if I wanted to drive two hours I'd really just expand to the whole country because I can fly most places in that same amount of time.