okay take a deep breath....they are not all like this

when a guy gives me his number I usually just ignore it. I don't call guys. It's not just an old fashioned thing either, its weird, uncomfortable, out of my comfort zone and unnesscary in my mind.

Some men ask me for my number. Sometimes I do that and say something like....sure, feel free to give me a call, but to be honest speaking on the phone before meeting is not really a requirment to me before meeting someone. If you would like to talk, I'm usually available in the evenings.

something like that....if they give me a number I might intiatite that conversation. If they ask me to call them I might offer my number and state what is above.

Don't cave to pressure. Always remain in your comfort zone.

And don't even bother with guys you are not interested in.