i'm divorced and have been leading a happy, fun, peaceful, uncomplicated life for almost 4 yrs now ... i 've dated on and off, met lots of great guys, but never found someone i thought might be 'worth it' ... until now ....

the problem is, i keep running away - all i see is my happy, uncomplicated single life disappearing in lieu of all the complications that come with a relationship - from things like figuring out whose family to visit on holidays to the classic nightly debate about dinner 'what do you want? i dunno what do you want? i don't care what do you want?' (arrrrggh!) .... it all makes me cringe and ... like i said ... run away (almost literally).

can someone out there please help me remember why relationships are worth all the trouble????? my gut tells me they are but my head can't seem to recall why!?

sincerely,
maybeiwasmeant2bsingle (butnotsureireallywannabe)