Because they are scammers! I had a friend two years ago lost her heart and several thousand dollars to a "Computer Engineer" from Seattle Wa. When she was matched with this guy I tried to tell her it did not add up. I placed his name in a data base and it did not come up. He told her the church he attended and when I called that church they did not know anything about him. When I ran his name on the computer with google there was lots of hits of other women who had been scammed by him. Just always remember if they have one American parent, are out of the country just for a short period of time, to finish up a job. Have one child usely a boy and they are never divorce but widow THEY ARE A SCAMMER!