I would add one more an agenda. Some women look for a man they can control and he does not have an space. One of the questions I am asked is do I have my own activities. Women forget there is a guy life too. The world does not center around the ladies agenda only. In the guided communications when the question of time spending together you do not give the lady the answer she wants your toast. I find that eharmony is a hit or mis. more mis. As I stated while your reading the womens read about me they are looking for somebody else at your expense. Let the games begin and good luck. PWR