Anyone know what the ratio of men to women is on eHarmony, esp in the 40 something age range. Rumor has it that there are a lot more women than men. As a woman, I'm not all that impressed with my matches that are interested in me and the ones that I'm interested in aren't intrested in me. Do the "good" ones have loads of women to choose from? I mean, I thought I was a pretty good catch, until the last couple of months on eH. Now I'm wondering what the heck is wrong with me. Not been a good experience for the ego for sure. Would like to hear from others.