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Fleuellen

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Join Date: Jul 2009

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“...had some 'think' time and have decided that I'm not going to pursue this any more” “I thought I would change my mind as things settled around me but neither hasn't happened so ...”

Now, I can readily interpret what the above says, ie, “not interested in going out with you again.” Now I’ve said the same to others; though by phone not e-mail. And why the “author” was pretty and engaging, I’m pleased not to have been caught up with someone who may have a few issues. And I know enough out pretty engaging women.

But my question for female readers is might “pursue this” mean. We’d only gone out a few times, quite pleasant, and I’d also invitedher to dinner party with some friends. But I didn’t feel I knew her that well, nor she me. I had to look carefully to pick her out in crowd. I kinda didn’t think I was pursing anything, just getting to know someone.

Is it a women turn-of-phrase for the same thing?

- September 17th, 2009, 06:53 am